This is something that I randomly remember and it also comes up during relevant conversations.
When I was about 10yrs schools started educating children about puberty and such. They don’t teach you anything about sex yet but more about the changes that will happen to your body. The girls and boys were taught separately and it would only be about 40mins each time. I think it happened once a year in my last 3 years of elementary which would’ve meant I would be from 10-12 yrs. Usually it’s a nurse that will come to talk about puberty but I remember in my last year there was a special speaker from an organization that talked to us about condoms and such.
During my first lesson about puberty from the nurse, all the girls from my class got up and we settled in the library and the nurse started talking about puberty. It was all fine and dandy until she did something that irked me and it irked me bad, to the point where I thought, at 10 years old, wow this lady is really immature.
The lady was holding up a book with a picture of a penis on it. It was a scientific drawing and while she held it up she turned her head away, covered her eyes and said “Ew, let me know when it’s over”. I thought that was so immature of her. I also don’t remember any of the girls having a negative reaction to it, though they might have just been embarrassed to see a penis, even if it was a drawing of one. I guess she did that because she assumed that little girls like us would think it was gross but honestly I just thought it was silly of her. I guess I always thought that teachers would have a more mature way of handling these things, perhaps she got a positive reaction when she did this with other students but for me, it just seemed silly and not a very mature approach. Or maybe I was just mature for my age *shrugs* <– this did lead me to having problems with connecting with my peers.
Also was I the only girl that was never told that blood comes out during your period?! For some reason I never grasped that concept until I actually had my first period and that’s when it felt like mother nature kicked in and I realized that I was having my period. It wasn’t until afterwards that I realized no one told me this is how it went! Yeesh! I felt like the nurses were being too formal and only used terms like your uterus is shedding etc. but I don’t remember anyone telling me there’d be blood, not that I have a problem with it but it was just a surprise LOL Or maybe I’m the only girl that didn’t know that T_T (but hey like I said, mother nature did kick in!)
Anyone else have these stories to share? =D
Month: October 2012
~ tarte’s tinted moisturizer ~
*note- I noticed that I couldn’t find this particular product on tarte’s website but they have something that looks similair (and pretty good) which is the BB tinted moisturizer. However I purchased mine’s at Sephora and do see it there regularly, darn now I want to try the bb one!!!
~ afternoon tea at the urban tea merchant – harvest theme ~
~ the acorn ~
The other day my friend and I decided to go try our first vegetarian restaurant, The Acorn. They also have gluten free, vegan and raw options as well. I was really excited to try it as I’ve never been to a truly vegetarian restaurant before and it also got great reviews online as well.
The location is on Main street which made it a bit hard to find parking and the restaurant also doesn’t accept reservations so make sure you get there early. We got there around 6:40pm, I put my name down and the girl informed me that it could be a 20-40min wait. My friend and I decided that we’d just walk around the area and check out the shops. Fast forward 40mins later and still no table to which the girl informed me that one of the co-owners or chef decided to take our table. Apparently he was going to eat at the bar but in the end decided to take our table. I thought this was really strange because if you were the owner/chef of a restaurant wouldn’t you put customers as first priority? I thought it was so so strange but it wasn’t her fault and she offered us counter seats if we didn’t mind. Seeing as we’d waited an hr at that point we took the counter seats which turned out to be a better option as we had a view of the street and it was fun to people watch.